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Braunschweiger Beziehungscoach verrät die fünf Arten zu lieben

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Braunschweiger Beziehungscoach verrät die fünf Arten zu lieben

| Lesedauer: 5 Minuten
Antonia Mandel ist selbstständige Erziehungsexpertin und Coach. Im Podcast "Glücksschmiede" erzählt sie von ihrer Arbeit und den fünf Sprachen der Liebe.

Antonia Mandel ist selbstständige Erziehungsexpertin und Coach. Im Podcast "Glücksschmiede" erzählt sie von ihrer Arbeit und den fünf Sprachen der Liebe.

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Braunschweig.  Was macht eine glückliche Beziehung aus? Braunschweiger Beziehungscoach und -expertin Antonia Mandel gibt Tipps aus ihrer Praxis.

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