Experte mit Tipps zur Erziehung von Kindern: Warum Langeweile wichtig ist

Tipps für Eltern

Experte über Erziehung: Lasst die Kinder doch schreien!

17.04.2023, 14:44 | Lesedauer: 8 Minuten

Spielende Kinder im Garten- Wie viel Kinderlärm ist erlaubt?

Wenn Kinder im Garten toben und so richtig Gas geben beim Spielen, kann das schon mal laut werden. Dafür haben allerdings nicht alle Verständnis. Fühlen sich Nachbarn von dem Krach gestört, kann das Probleme geben. Wie viel Lärm ist erlaubt? Gibt es Ruhezeiten, die eingehalten werden müssen? Wir klären auf.

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Berlin. Eltern heute sind reine Entertainer. Doch damit muss Schluss sein, so ein Experte. Kinder sollen sich langweilen und Frust schieben.

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Entertainment der Eltern fördert die Unselbstständigkeit der Kinder

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Frustrierte Kinder entwickeln Fantasie

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Kinder, die ihre Wunsche steuern können, werden später oft erfolgreich

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